Cyber Criminals don’t stop for Christmas

Out of frustration, I decided to spend some time writing this article in the hope that it might reach people and help them avoid becoming victims of cyber‑crime.
I’m going to highlight cyber criminals’ techniques based on what has happened to me over the last few months. I thought I was cyber‑security savvy, but you’d be surprised at the tricks criminals can use to disguise themselves as electronic wolves in sheep’s clothing. Let’s start with some figures from the British Government’s National Cyber Security Centre:
‘As of December 2025, the number of reports stands at more than 49.8M. This has resulted in 240k scams removed across 426k URLs.’

I started being targeted in December 2025 by mystery phone calls. For the first couple of times, I received a call from an Edinburgh code number. I’d answer, there would be a brief silence, then the call would be cut by the caller. Not long after, I’d get a call from a Glasgow prefix, the same silence and no message. Another came from a Manchester prefix, then another from a London prefix.
What concerned me was that if this was a scammer, surely they would want to get me into conversation in order to attempt to extort money from me. Was it possibly a stalker?
What the caller was able to obtain without saying anything was confirmation that I would be awake at that time. Perhaps background noise could be noted, allowing the caller to build up some kind of ‘profile’. What I observed was that the caller tended to ring at the same time, usually (but not always) around 11am in the morning or about 5pm in the evening – never late at night or very early. To me this suggested the caller also had a routine, perhaps even a day job.
On one occasion I blocked an incoming call from Manchester ending in 1783. The next day I received another call from Manchester, and the phone number was identical except the final digits ended in 1784.
At that point I knew something suspicious was going on. These criminals use what are known in the trade as ‘sock puppets’ – fake or disposable identities created to disguise their real ones.
A sock puppet can be a fake phone number attached to your phone through an app. You can also use an app to create a one‑time‑only email address which a criminal can use once, then discard, leaving the address to be recycled for someone else waiting in the queue.
The scammer may have realised I was on to them, so they decided to send me an email, and this is where I let my guard down.
I received the following email:


Thinking this was a genuine new client enquiry, I suspected nothing and replied asking what they wanted.
I received a response.


From the second email I realised that the surname was spelled slightly differently and that the emails came from different addresses. My guess is that they were using more sock puppets.
The content of the message was so badly written that either the scammer had not properly thought through how to continue the fraud, or they were demonstrating that although I had blocked their calls, they could still reach me in other ways. The English quite clearly showed that the sender was no Charles Dickens.
Both scam emails were forwarded to the British Government’s phishing department in the hope they might be able to prevent this cyber criminal from targeting the elderly or vulnerable.
Around the same time, I tried to do some trade on a popular freelancing site for creatives. I placed some adverts and very quickly received enquiries, which was surprising as my ads had only been live for a day. I was savvy enough to notice that instead of asking whether I’d be interested in doing some work, they asked me to click on a link so that I could ‘review’ their ‘proposals’. Such a Trojan technique could have opened my laptop to a whole soup of malware and viruses.
I received three of these cyber traps. They were reported to the site administrators, who blocked the senders for me.
It’s easy to become worried or anxious about the cyber criminals out there, but you can find many resources online to help you protect your data, your bank account and your life.
As for me, I simply take criminal actions against me and convert them into free content.
If you have received any suspicious emails, or if you have been a victim of fraud in the UK, you can contact:
http://www.reportfraud.police.uk
Tel: 0300 123 2040
Send your suspicious emails to: report@phishing.gov.uk

YOUR NETWORK IS YOUR NETWORTH

What does this really mean? Simply put, in business your connections reflect your influence – and often determine how far your products or services will reach. That includes our customers. When they buy from us and have a great experience, they become part of our network too, recommending us to friends, family and colleagues.
After a few months away from the business networking scene – and after finally walking away from a toxic day job – I decided it was time to refresh my business plan and commit to getting back out there.
Today I attended my first networking event in months: the GrowBiz Entrepreneurs Meet-Up in the Perthshire town of Auchterarder.
I’ve been supported by GrowBiz since 2019 and have always loved their events. They’re friendly, relaxed and genuinely welcoming. There’s always complimentary food and drinks, and at some of the more spectacular evening events we’ve even been treated to three-course buffets – all at no charge.
So yes, I was excited.
I woke up with a feeling I hadn’t had in a long time: looking forward to the day ahead instead of dreading it. No longer a slave to the day job, I was actually excited about heading north for a morning of connection and opportunity.
I’d done my prep:
• Planned my route on Google Maps
• Checked where the EV charging stations were
• Looked up the parking options
• Packed my book portfolio
• And tucked in my brand new business cards
I was ready to roll.
What I’d forgotten was just how challenging Scottish winter driving can be.
The first problem hit quickly: my screen wash nozzles had frozen. As the windscreen started to get coated in road salt, my despair grew just as fast. I pulled the spray lever – nothing. The wipers simply smeared the salt across the glass, dramatically reducing visibility on a country road where stopping wasn’t really an option.
I eventually pulled over at the first junction and had to make my first strategic decision of the day. I still had 35 minutes to get to the event, but my battery level was just over 50%, giving me around 50 miles of range.
My options:
• Turn back home, grab a bottle of water to clear the windscreen – using more battery and almost certainly arriving late.
• Give up, go home and cancel – and then sit with regret for the rest of the day.
• Carry on, trusting that at the Crook of Devon petrol station I could pick up water en route.
I chose to carry on.
As I drove through the remote Glendevon hills, range anxiety began to creep in. At 50% battery, my Mini had about 50 miles of range, and I wasn’t entirely sure I’d have enough to get back home.
Images of being stranded on the roadside for hours waiting for recovery started to float through my mind. I knew there was a charging station in Auchterarder – but would it be free? Would it be working?
I kept going regardless.
What was really happening, of course, was an inner resistance to change. When we move from the security of employment into the unknown, the mind will often do everything it can to pull us back to the familiar – even if that familiar is painful.
Pain and frustration with a salary can feel safer than freedom and possibility without one.
This is something I’ve often heard Jay Hastings of Serious About Success coaching services talk about – and there I was, living it in real time.
By the time I reached the main road into Auchterarder, my battery was down to 30%. That’s when I hit the next obstacle: the road was closed.
The sign cheerfully announced it would be closed for the next 32 weeks.
Despair made another appearance.
One of the workmen directed me back onto the motorway to follow the diversion signs. Once again, my windscreen had quickly became coated in road salt, so stopping again, I used some Highland Spring water to wash it down. With magical life force of its own, the bottle cap flew off, disappeared under the car, and for a moment I just stood there thinking, Really?
I was wearing my good trousers and didn’t exactly fancy crawling under the car. Fortunately, the cap was just within reach. Small win.
The motorway sign said “Auchterarder 4 miles”. At 30% battery I knew I had at least 20 miles of range – enough to breathe a little easier. Hope started to replace the despair.
When I finally arrived at the public car park, I was already five minutes late for the event. The first few charging stations I tried were either occupied or not working. Despair, again.
Then I saw one last charging station with a green to go light on, I raced to get the parking bay and plugged in. Relief washed over me as the car began to charge.
A bonus: the car park itself was full, but thanks to having an EV, I got a space at the charger. Sometimes the future does have perks.
Now I was ready to network – only 30 minutes late.
Aytoun Hall was just across the street from the charging point. I headed in and was welcomed by a friendly group of fellow entrepreneurs. Within minutes I’d introduced myself, started chatting, and begun learning about their businesses and stories.
I was especially grateful for the tea and biscuits after such a stressful journey – and reassured knowing the car would be fully charged for a relaxed drive home.
I met:
• Mark, who has started his own whisky distillery
• Gill, a Respite Carer
• Angie, a Brand and Marketing freelancer
We agreed on a few important things:
• It’s good to get out of the house and network.
• Hot-desking or working away from home can be refreshing, even if staying at home is cheaper.
• Human contact matters – especially when you can build genuine relationships and potential collaborations.
As the conversations flowed, all my earlier travel stress started to dissolve. It was replaced by a feeling of wholeness – a deep sense that I was exactly where I was meant to be, doing the work I’m meant to do, with the people I’m meant to meet.
Freelancing in media and books gives my life a sense of meaning and purpose that the day job never did.
You don’t get paid for networking, at least not directly.
But it is one of the most powerful ways to market yourself and your business. Once people get to know you, like you and trust you, they’ll share your details with potential customers. They’ll remember you when someone says, “Do you know anyone who…?”
Your network really does become your net worth.
I drove home with a renewed sense of achievement – a feeling I hadn’t experienced in months. The stress of the morning had transformed into connection and momentum.
I’m already looking forward to my next GrowBiz Christmas lunch event.
Is that really “working”?
Of course it is.
Because building relationships, showing up and being seen is at the heart of any successful business – and your network will always be a big part of your net worth.

NEW BOOK!!

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For 2023 I am pleased to announce work has started on the next book. My genre is Mind Body Spirit because these are the types of books I like to read and buy.

So the next book topic will be on the subject of Mind.

Producing a 30k word book takes a long time. My initial project was going to be a Self Help book which I estimate would have taken me approximately 3 weeks to write and it would have been for sale on Amazon by now – BUT – this topic failed to pass Proof Of Concept. So I had to go back to square one and start again.

I have my new topic and having to work a day job, and volunteer and various other duties, research is going to take me much longer than anticipated. I do try to spend at least one hour each day getting some research done. Once the bulk of the research has been carried out, and if I can write 30k words or more I can then proceed to passing the manuscript to the editor for the next stage in the process.

In my opinion there are 3 types of Writer. There are writers who just love to write and do not care if the book sells. There are writers who write books purely to make money – they may not even have an interest in their book subject but they know that topic will sell. And there’s the 3rd type of writer who enjoys writing their book and wish to only write books that will sell. This is the category I think I would fall into – this time but not perhaps in future. The nice thing about being a publisher is you can organize a book by pulling in a team of researcher, ghost writer, editor and book cover designer – so you are managing a project for a book that you may even have not much interest in.